Abigail Van Buren

Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, and was founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips. Contact Dear Abby at www.DearAbby.com or P.O. Box 69440, Los Angeles, CA 90069.

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Dear Abby: Widower finds companionship, but isn’t ready for romance

Dear Abby: My wife died of cancer four years ago. She was my best friend, and the pain of losing her was more than I could cope with.

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Dear Abby: Hospice volunteer’s woeful tales wear her family down

Dear Abby: My mother has been a hospice volunteer for six months. I think that’s great.

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Dear Abby: Woman takes a hands-off approach to blind dates

Dear Abby: I’m a single 38-year-old woman.

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Dear Abby: Serial father keeps chummy relationships with his exes

Dear Abby: I recently met a 28-year-old father of three I’m interested in.

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Dear Abby: Girlfriend deserves to know about man’s abusive past

Dear Abby: My brother is in a long-term relationship.

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Dear Abby: Gal pals can’t see positives in woman’s open marriage

Dear Abby: I’ve been in an extramarital relationship for 10 years. My husband knows, and so do my close friends.

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Dear Abby: Friend finds gender fluidity a hard concept to swallow

Dear Abby: I have a longtime friend I see almost every day. She’s an awesome friend.

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Dear Abby: Fetish drives man to badger his wife into smoking again

Dear Abby: I am a 28-year-old female. I recently married the most amazing man in the whole world, “Jeremy.”

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Dear Abby: Parents debate whether teens are ready to stay home alone

Dear Abby: I’ve never written to you before, but I’m having a disagreement with my husband.

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Dear Abby: Teen tells mom to stay away during his band performances

After performing in last year’s Christmas parade, a group of the students went to a nursing home to perform for the residents. When we arrived, I started to get out of the car with my son so I could listen, as other parents were doing. My son seemed surprised that I was going to stay and said he would rather I didn’t because I make him nervous. Needless to say, I was devastated.

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